If another member of the church sins against you, go and point out the fault when the two of you are alone. If the member listens to you, you have regained that one.
Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother.
If another believer sins against you, go privately and point out the offense. If the other person listens and confesses it, you have won that person back.
Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful.